Most men think about love as something that represents and defines a male. The truth is that love belongs to no one person, and avoids most if we really look at the issue. It's fleeting for most people, even those in relationships. If for a moment we drop the ball, get lazy, were tardy, or say something to embarrass or humiliate our partner, the clock starts ticking. And be mindful of that ticking. If you take the course of rapid damage control, you're on a good path, but never repeat the error lest you become boring to boot.
Some things can work out with time, and some things can be forgiven, but never forgotten. Be wary of your words and actions if you wish for a relationship to pass the test of time. Never say the first thing that's on your mind, but the last thing that's on your mind. Hopefully it's so mundane you won't create a controversy.
You can be expressive and open, but never repeat something you heard from a friend , or from something on the television. Try to be individual in your thoughts and ovoid being the guy that spouts off the latest belief.
Never watch porn on the internet, cause the real thing is better not to have, than the unreal thing is to not have. Besides, you'll look like a fool,which you are probably already. If your sex life isn't what you'd imagined, then move on or talk about a change. If you're doing the same thing all the time, you're as much at fault as your partner. The problem now is, how do you change it? Not easy. However, if you truly love your partner, you can clean the slate and start again. Romance is there for everyone to embrace. Say or do something funny or scary. Let your partner now it's not life altering, so they're not afraid, and enjoy the effects. Get into a little mischief and enjoy what follows.
Above all, praise your lover for the things they do for you and others. Remember that this person is not on this earth for you, but many. Enjoy them and celebrate who they are, because if they leave your life you can start reading this all over again.
To everyone who's got it and figured it out, "way to go", and keep it up..
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